I often notice when people have a ‘thing’ that stops them living life and being happy. These things can be really traumatic and/or debilitating.
In no way am I minimising your thing. I hear the most horrific things happening to people and I recognise the horror of living with chronic problems.
As soon as people start to feel better, it’s usually the last I see of them, which is great. My work is kinda weird because I know it’s better when I don’t see people; as lovely as it always is to see people, I know there’s a problem when I do.
People go off and feel like they can live their life in a better way but continue to carry the thing with them.
Trouble is, life has a way of sending us a bit of a curve ball, regardless of how we live. Some people are lucky enough to (seemingly) float through life without too much happening; others tend to lurch from crisis to crisis. We don’t have much control over what life sends us, sometimes it simply turns up.
In over 25 years of noticing this, I can promise you this; never have I seen living life with the handbrake on keep you safe from things happening. The only outcome of wearing this thing you’ve experienced like a badge of honour does, is to stop you from being happy and living a life well-lived.
Lots of love and positivity from the person who specialises in helping remove ‘things.’