Working in Wilmslow and London I have an abnormally high incidence of infidelity problems to deal with. There are lots of reasons why this could be, but one of them seems to be that women in particular rely on their looks to stop their partner ‘cheating’. We’ve all seen ‘Cheshire housewives’ and the London equivalent and whilst its useful to bear in mind that they ‘camp’ it up for the cameras, it really highlights the ethos that it’s the way you look that will ensure a good relationship. It’s really difficult to hear a woman who has been married for 25 years suggest that a way to stop her husband continuously cheating on her is to get liposuction. I cringe when I hear about teenagers having ‘boob’ jobs and obsessing about their looks as its all helping to reinforce the idea that it’s their looks that are most important. Every woman of a ‘certain’ age you see tottering around on death defying heels with enough Botox and fillers to sink a ship, is a woman who thinks that it’s only her looks that have given her success.
Ladies, if you rely only on your appearance to hold your relationship together, or get you the man of your dreams, you’re in for a nasty surprise.
If any of this rings true for you, then stop yourself booking that extra personal training and try spending your money on finding out more about you. When I say more about you, what I actually mean is more about what makes you special, what do other people really value about you? Are you really happy in your relationship and is your partner? Think about it, if your partner is genuinely happy in the relationship, why would he want to cheat on you with somebody else, even if they are a bit slimmer, taller, younger and risk losing a great relationship?
Known as the best psychologist around, Wendy’s an obvious choice to be featured on the show’
Cheshire Housewives
As an ex-athlete I’ve always advocated the benefits of keeping in shape physically, but it’s just as important to look after your mental wellbeing. Book a session with Wendy, she’s the person to help you look after your brain just as you would your body.
Graham Bell
5 x Olympic Skier and presenter of BBC Ski Sunday.
Amazing!
Rachel Lugo
Cheshire Housewives
Dare to dream big and Wendy’s THE person to help get you there.
Sam Bailey
X Factor winner with a long list of sell out tour successes under her belt.
The most exciting thing in the world is getting a chance to tear it all up and start again. Keep all the things you want and throw out everything you don’t. Wendy will help you do just that!
Becky Sheeran
Beauty, lifestyle and fashion blogging sensation Becky Sheeran (TalkBeckyTalk)
It’s great to have a leading psychotherapist such as Wendy in the Cheshire area, outside of her Harley Street practice. After publicly raising awareness of mental health issues and myself recovering from depression, I know how immensely life-changing expert intervention can be.
Jason Jarrett
Retired ex-professional football who played for Bury, Wigan, Stoke, Preston, Norwich, Leicester and Brighton during a 14 year career. After leaving professional football, Jason battled depression and recovered with the help of therapy and family support.
Wendy is great at what she does; she made me feel at ease immediately and really helped me work through some issues.
Tara Costello
It’s funny but from the minute I met her I felt so relaxed and she was so easy to talk to. Thank you!
Stevie Brown
Wendy isn’t only really good at what she does, she’s also really easy to talk to.
Gabriel Wilson
I want to thank you Wendy from the bottom of my heart for guiding me through what must have been the most difficult time of my life.
Raza Syed
I was told she was the best and they were right.
Noelle Dray
Although I consider myself a confident person, I was really nervous when I met Wendy for the first time. I had only emailed her before so it was really nerve wracking walking up the stairs to her office. I can honestly say it’s one of the best things I have ever done. Wendy is really normal, no in fact she isn’t normal as she is unfailingly bright and smiley even when she has to listen to me moan on about how awful my life was. It feels like having a chat with somebody who just gets you and you can trust with things you have never trusted anybody else with before. The magic bit comes when things you have talked about just pop up into your head and you start to do things differently. Wendy once joked about not having a magic wand, but I think she has.
Paul Hendry
I came to Wendy with a set of problems I have never been able to fully explain to anyone, which included grief, many family issues and alcohol problems. Wendy truly has an active listening style and absorbs everything you are saying, whilst not making you feel analysed, it is an incredible skill. She astounded me at how she got to the crux of the issues so fast. So much so that we both agreed I only needed one session with her, obviously this may not be the case with everyone but I would confidently recommend her to anyone, regardless of your problems. There was no awkwardness or even clock watching, she is wonderful at what she does, take the plunge and make an appointment, you will not regret it. Life is a direction not a destination and she will get you on the path again.
JB
