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Are you an over-thinker? Are you overthinking this?

Are you an over-thinker? Are you overthinking this?

The problem is more often than not perceived negatively however, it can be a positive thing. But not when it leads to anxiety of course, that’s terrible. So, Are you an over-thinker? Are you overthinking this?

When it’s actually analysing, overthinking can mean you’re prepared for whatever the world has to throw at you because you’ve had time to think it through. To analyse every potential outcome and what you’ll do if said event occurs.

However, the reason overthinking is thought of in a less than favorable light most of the time, is because it stops us from living in the present moment.

So ask yourself, Are you an over-thinker? Are you overthinking this situation?


The idea behind mindfulness is not a new one. It’s been around for millennia.

The premise behind mindfulness is to allow yourself to live in the moment, to not be distracted by the million and one things that are seemingly more pressing. The things that are trying to get you to live in the past or worry about the future.

Mindfulness teaches you to enjoy the here and now. When we overthink, we get caught up in our heads, and then we can get bogged down in the weeds.

By overthinking we end up losing ourselves in a different reality, becoming trapped in a world of what ifs, the should haves, the would haves or could haves.

If we stay there it leads to anxiety, fretting, depression, dread and worry. The only way to escape the suffering is to let go, and that’s easier said than done.

Replaying past events or planning all eventualities for the future is exhausting, time consuming and destructive.

Why overthinking is unhealthy.

Numerous studies have shown:

● Overthinking can lead to mental health problems.
● It inhibits your actual capability of problem-solving.
● It stops you sleeping (which leads back to the first point).

When you become aware of going over and over things in your mind stop and ask yourself, Are you an over-thinker? Are you overthinking this?

How to stop.

You don’t have to be like this forever. There are steps you can take to free your mind and take back control.

  1. Pay attention to your thoughts. Notice when you get stuck in your head, over-analysing. Acknowledge that what you’re doing isn’t helpful.
  2. Focus on actually solving the problem. Rather than looking at the problem from all angles, and worrying about it. Instead, try to find a solution to work past it. If you have no control over the situation, focus on the things you can control, like your behavior.
  3. When your thoughts are negative, remember that the worst-case scenario is not going to happen. At this point, your emotions are governing your thoughts and leading you down this path. Look at the situation rationally. You won’t lose your job because you take a sick day.
  4. Try mindfulness. Download an app, find a class, read a book, watch an online tutorial or ask a friend to help you with it. Living in the here and now takes time to learn, but once you’ve mastered the art, even if you practice for just five minutes a day, you’ll reap the rewards.
  5. Seek professional help. Consider using cognitive behavioral therapy to help you stop overthinking and show you how to break down your thought processes and teach yourself to think differently.

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